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Answer this question honestly: do you ejaculate too quickly during sex? Many guys won't admit it, yet most guys do in fact ejaculate too quickly during sex. It actually is very common. It's also the number one reason why guys don't satisfy their women. This often times can lead to infidelity, as the woman seeks someone else who will satisfy her. But if you ejaculate too quickly during sex (like many, many men do) there is something you can do about it to become a better lover and satisfy any woman you want. Also read: The Case for Men’s Sex Toys – Why You Should Be Using Them Unfortunately many guys try to cure this problem by using creams or pills, or ridiculous techniques like counting backwards. There are a lot of "quick fix" solutions that really don't work that well, and if they do they lessen the enjoyment of sex tremendously (for instance there are "numbing creams" which guys will use so they will last a bit longer than usual, but then they won't feel any of the pleasures from sex). The only real way to last longer permanently is to train your body to hold out and not give in to premature ejaculation. How do you do this? There's a few different methods you should learn: Exercises. There is a muscle responsible for ejaculatory control. For most guys it is very weak, hence when they try to flex it, the ejaculation will be too strong and the muscle won't hold. The key is to strengthen this muscle (it's located between your anus and testicles; try urinating, then stopping and you will be flexing this muscle). You can flex this muscle on your own while just sitting in a chair. Repeated flexes everyday will strengthen this muscle. Mental Routines. There have been studies showing that premature ejaculation does have a lot to do with natural mental issues that most everyone has, such as performance anxiety, nervousness, subconscious things going on and so forth. So when these things pop up in your head, then boom! Premature ejaculation set's in immediately. The key is to learn mental techniques such as breathing exercises that you can do to stop these mental issues from becoming a factor during sex. Once you get a grasp on this you will automatically hold out a LOT longer than usual. Practice Sex. Once you have a good routine on how to do the exercises and how to work the mental routines, then you could put these to practice. If you have a girlfriend willing to help you then that's great. If not you can practice masturbation and put the routine to the test. Each time you practice, you will get stronger, and will be able to hold out longer during actual sex. Also read: Restoring The Sexual Libido In Your Relationship According to the stereotype, guys are completely comfortable with sex toys, and girls are completely weirded out even by tamer items like porn movies, and liable to walk out on you if they find a realistic vagina sex toy in your cupboard! We all know that stereotypes are rarely true, though, and if you have a guy who's a little apprehensive about introducing high end sex toys into your playtime, it can feel very limiting. Today we check out some tips and techniques for getting a guy over his fear of high quality sex toys! Vibrating Rings These sex toys can be attached either to condoms or worn bareback in a longer-term relationship. They are a fantastic place for guys that feel a little threatened to start, because they are completely useless without him there. Additionally, he is in complete control of your experience with the ring. Finger Vibrators These are usually marketed as small and luxury vibrators that a lady can use anywhere (well, anywhere you have enough privacy not to be arrested!). However, they are also a great first foray into the sex toy world for uncomfortable guys - again, he's in complete control. Remote Control Vibrators Another toy that puts him in complete control is the remote control vibrator. You strap it on underneath your knickers, find a nice noisy pub or club, and put the controller in his pocket. In this situation, the toy is hardly replacing him... he is simply working through the toy, like your personal sex god! Toys for Him! There are plenty of sex toys online that are designed primarily to make the male reach orgasm more easily, or make the orgasm feel different... so why not try out one of these first? Show him that you don't feel threatened, and he'll usually respond in kind. Talking About the Female Body One of the reasons that men often feel replaced, inadequate or threatened by sex toys are that they assume female bodies respond to stimulation in the same way as the male body. If your man isn't willing to try any of the above ideas, taking Salt 'n Pepa's advice and 'taking about sex' is the most sensible starting point. Guys need to know that since the male orgasm is linked to reproduction, evolution has found many mysterious ways to make it occur very reliably! Girls haven't been so lucky in this department... a lady who can only orgasm in limited circumstances is still quite able to pass on her genes. There is no inadequacy in either partner, only ordinary genetic differences like a tendency to get coughs and colds, the ability to tan rather than get sunburned or having a speedy metabolism. |
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