So what basically are the obstacles that prevent you from having more and how to overcome them? Here you will find out how you and your partner can overcome these obstacles so that you can have more fun again. (1) Frequent arguments Arguing over the minor issues in your daily life can hurt your sex life. Avoid these by playing to each other's strengths. You should not try to win on every single thing. At times, give way and let your partner have his/her say. (2) Kids in the house Get temporary help to take care of kids. If you can, make an arrangement with your neighbors. You take care of their kids on Friday and they take care of yours on Saturday. If the neighbors are unhelpful, seek the help of parents, in-laws or go home when the kids are not around. Nearly 40% of women would be willing to get busy at noon. (3) TV in your bedroom Researchers found that couples who have a TV in the bedroom make love less often than those whose rooms does not have one. Late night TV programs can be quite distracting and interfering to your love life. Buy a DVR to record any of your favorite late night programs and watch them at other times. (4) Busy schedules This can leave you and your partner too tired to get intimate. You should consider doing some physical exercises at the early part of the week (which has the effect of stimulating the secretion of more libido-boosting testosterone) can set the tone for the rest of the week. If you can, discuss with your boss about the possibility of making some changes in your job scope that can free up some hours for you to revive your love life. For a 2-income family where the working wife is also taking care of the household tasks, this double responsibility can totally or almost reduce her sexual desire. For her welfare and for the sake of the overall relationship, husband should take the initiative to look into ways to alleviate her work load. (5) Too heavy meals Romantic dinners are nice but eating too much can backfire. It can cause you to be too lethargic to have any passion left for your bedroom activities as most of the blood will be diverted to the parts of your body that will be busily doing the job of digesting what you have just eaten. Opt for smaller potions and sharing the dish can boost your sense of cooperation. (6) Sexual boredom When sex becomes routine, it can eventually lead to a loss of sexual desire. Introduce high end sex toys such as luxury vibrators and much more or engage in role-playing (or sexual fantasy) to shake things up. Just do something different. Novelty is good for sex and this is applicable to your social life as well. It can be as simple as skipping your evening TV programs to go for a walk in the park. Anything that makes the start of your evening less predictable can bring some unexpected changes later on. (7) Her lack of confidence This is expressed in the way she is concerned off herself being physically less attractive. Reassure her by praising her most guarded body parts - buttocks, thighs, and waist - preferably when you are not going to have sex soon. This can reinforce the sincerity of your compliment. (8) She does not feel loved For a woman, love and sex is not separable. A woman needs good feelings and experiences during the day to have satisfying sex. How her husband treats her out of bed greatly influences her response in bed. Inattentiveness, harsh language, a rude tone, hurting words and criticism can make it difficult for a woman to be enthusiastic and passionate during sex. It is important for a couple to be loving of each other, even when they are not in the sex act. Good sex is constant affection and closeness throughout the day. When one of you feel the lack of love, both of you need to deeply examine your relationship, either on your own or with the help of a good counselor. Ask yourself what you can do to bring more depth into your relationship and make it more than sex - a sharing of intimacy. It will be better if both of you speak freely on this subject with each other and try to understand each other.
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